When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are
known to be actively engaging. Apart from their
culture of carrying the financial burden of
relationship with women, they harness every
opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on
social-network sites, in their respective offices,
religious organizations, gym centers, parks, clubs
among others.
Despite the many romantic attributes that could
be said of men in Nigeria, women still hold a
contrary account about them. Predominant
among the contrary views women hold against
men here is that no matter how romantic they
are, getting them to the altar for marriage could
be very challenging.
So, what are those factors that scare Nigerian
men away from marriage? Here are some
reasons that might be responsible for most men's
jittery feelings to the Marriage issue.please after
reading through,add a reason you feel might be
missing.....
1. - No wife materials
Common among some men is the reservation that
there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In
this case, they are not referring to ladies not
being in quantifiable distribution among men,
what they are complaining about is that most
ladies of this generation lack the necessary
attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime
commitment called marriage. If this is the case,
time of quality search can help heal the wound of
such man.
2. - They get sex freely without marriage than in
time past
Realizing now that they can get sex more easily
than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women
was a pass value to marriage, some men now
feel lot of women today have lost it when it
comes to keeping themselves whole. But, this
might not be the fault of women as promiscuity is
not an exclusive act that can be carried out
without the consent of either gender.
3 - Nigeria weddings are expensive
In a country where a man is expected to marry a
woman in three different kinds of wedding-
Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of
marriage no doubt is something men find very
intimidating. As of last year, the average Nigeria
wedding cost something like N500,000 and the it
goes upward from that to more unimaginable
cost. For most people, especially in this economy,
that’s a lot of money. But all we advise is that
men should try and cut their coat according to
their material
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