It makes you nervous.
Your heart starts beating faster than you can count.
And your stomach inches closer to your tongue with each step you take.
But as a guy, knowing how to approach a girl is one of the most important things to know in the dating world.
Now I’m not going to make this any more difficult that you already assume it to be.
Yes, talking to a girl who’s a stranger is not easy.
But then again, if you know just how to do it without appearing like
you’re picking her up, you’ll realize just how easy the whole game can
be.
How to approach a girl you don’t know
Forget pick up lines, forget bumping into her, and every other *smart* move you’ve heard.
I’ll teach you to keep it simple, and help you win her heart even before you say ‘hello’.
Here’s the only tip that matters and you need to remember it for the
rest of your dating life. Always let the girl know you want to talk to
her before you even talk to her. Don’t make the mistake of approaching a
girl out of the blue and asking her out. It almost always never works,
unless you’re a smooth talker with the gift of gab.
If
you’re a regular joe who wants to turn into a chick magnet, just follow
these steps and you’ll win her attention before you finish your drink!
Getting her attention
You need to let the girl know you’re going to approach her. So warm her up to that idea to begin with by using these steps.
#1 Glance at her. Look at her now and then just to
let her know that you’re trying to catch her attention. Be sneaky and
discreet, and always look away just as soon as she catches your eye.
You’ll rouse her curiosity and that’ll force her to look at you now and
then to see if you’re still watching her.
#2 The eye contact. Each time she looks at you, look
at her and immediately look away sheepishly. Continue to look at her
now and then, and once in a while, lock your gaze at her for a small
fraction of a second and look away again. By doing this, you’re already
building the sexual attraction. But if she doesn’t reciprocate here,
she’s probably not interested in you.
#3 Appear awkward. If you’re with your friends, look
at her now and then, but appear like your distracted and not able to
focus on the conversation you’re having with your friends. By doing
that, you’re making her see that she’s on your mind and you’re too
distracted to focus on your friends. That’s subtle flattery!
#4 Smile at her. Exchange eye contact now and then,
one or two times every minute and no more than that, and when you feel
pretty courageous, flash a tiny smile from the corner of your lip for a
second, and let her notice your smile. Don’t give her a big grin though,
a malicious big grin at this stage will scare any girl away.
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