Men
go for prostitutes even if they are married or have a girlfriend, but
the question we always ask 'why do they do it?'. Find out
If you asked all your male friends if they’ve ever hired a prostitute, you might be surprised by their honest answer.
A recent survey discovered that 15 percent of American men had paid for s*x at some point in their life.
The stats surprised me — they were higher than I had expected. But
then I realized that I personally know a few men who have frequentedthe
services of ladies of the night. A few indulged on a bachelor’s trip to
Prague, another hired a prostitute every night on his way home from the
pub, and yet another hired services online a few times a month.
So I thought I’d ask them outright: why do you pay for s*x? The answers are way simpler than you’d imagine:
1. They want to sleep with MUCH hotter women.
“If I’m being brutally honest, the hottest women I’ve ever
f*cked have been s*x workers. I would never be able to f*ck women who
are ridiculously hot unless they were prostitutes.”
This was the top reason they all gave. I was surprised, since the
guys I asked are all good-looking, successful in their chosen fields,
and have no problem getting dates. But they all agreed that to sleep
with stunning women, the easiest way was simply to pay.
2. They want to be in control.
“I still want to make sure that the woman is having a good
time. But truthfully, I’m more concerned that I’m getting what I want,
since I paid for it. And because I paid for it, I’m not afraid to ask.”
Most of them said there’s something very hot in being able to ask
for what you want in bed and get it, no questions asked. (Although one
guy did admit he paid a prostitute once so that SHE could be in charge.)
But generally, they all admitted to being more open about what they
wanted and more physically satisfied when they paid for sex.
Emotionally, of course, remains to be seen.
3. They want to indulge in a fantasy.
“I like to try things — I’m not going to say what — that a
girlfriend once told me was kinky. When I pay a hooker, I’m not worried
about what I ask for. Nothing shocks them.”
Although most of the guys I spoke to were all single, the old
cliché of men asking prostitutes for certain “services” that would
offend their wives still seems to exist. One man said that he’d never
had better oral sex in his life than with a prostitute.
4. They want to find the quickest route to having s*x.
“Getting a prostitute is so easy: no strings attached, you can
choose the woman you want before you purchase, then they arrive at your
door. Couldn’t be easier.”
All the guys I spoke to had used different methods of visiting
prostitutes. Two used websites, another visited a brothel, and another
took a prostitute’s number from a London phone box. But they all agreed:
it was the quickest way to get sex when they felt the urge.
5. They want to avoid complications.
“We want to have sex without all the bullsh*t of pretending to
be really interested in a girl. When you pay for sex, you don’t have to
swap numbers at the end when you know you won’t call. You pay, have sex,
she leaves. Everyone’s happy.”
Several of the men had previously had one-night stands with girls
who wouldn’t leave them alone after the fact. They said that taking home
a girl and sleeping with her seems like a great idea … until the girl
suggests meeting again or wants to start dating or having a
relationship. As embarrassed as they were to admit it, many of them said
the sure-fire way to have no-strings-attached sex is to pay for it.
- This post originally appeared on "Your Tango"
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