My Wife’s ‘Masturbation’ Has Affected My First Daughter – Husband

A 44-year-old businessman, Ekpolador Ebi, told an FCT High Court, Kubwa, that he would no longer tolerate his wife’s masturbation.

Ebi made this known when he testified in his divorce petition against his wife, Gloria Onajero, in Abuja on Wednesday. He urged the court to end the marriage, which had produced two children because of his wife’s unfaithful and intolerable character.

The petitioner questioned the paternity of his children, when he found out his wife’s extra-marital affair with one Richard. He also noted that his wife’s “ugly character” has had a negative impact on their children.

“She masturbates on a regular basis. I have warned her severally but she wouldn’t stop. Now it has affected my first daughter. “I caught her on three occasions; I spoke to the mother about it and she promised that it would be resolved but it did not.

“Now, I noticed since we separated, that the children have developed confidence issues in school. “My first daughter has also developed anger issues; she slams the door at you when you try to scold her. All these never used to be,” he testified.

Ebi also told the court that he ran away from his home because his wife and her mother frustrated all his good intentions. According to him, his wife also beats the children with so much force and without mercy and when he tried to caution her, her mother supports her.

The petitioner urged the court to, aside dissolving the marriage; help him recover his property from his wife. “My wife came into this marriage with nothing, but when she left, she went away with everything I had.  She took all the original documents of my property, including our marriage certificate.

“I want everything back, including my first daughters’ international passport which has a five-year-visa on it. “I also want this court to order her to stop calling me at odd hours. She calls me around 1 a.m, 2 a.m or 3 a.m for no good reason,” he said.

Mr Festus Ukpe, Counsel to the respondent, applied to the court to grant them two dates of adjournment to enable him and his client prepare their defence. The presiding judge, Justice Bello Kawu, adjourned the matter till March 21 and  March 30.

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Wow! Man Stopped Masturbating for 700 Days and This Amazing Thing Happened to Him

A man who stopped the act of masturbation for as many as 700 days has told of the exhilarating experience he had during that period.

File photo used only for illustrative purpose

 

A young man who stopped pleasuring himself for nearly two years has opened up about the consequences of going without masturbation.

 

The man, a Reddit user identified as Brohit is part of the “NoFap” movement which sees guys experiment with s*xual abstinence for long periods of time.

 

He managed to make it to 700 days without indulging in solo s*x and shared his experience in a candid online thread titled: “Reflecting on a 700-day NoFap journey”.

 

Revealing that he began his journey two and half years ago, Brohit said that his mind felt a lot clearer and he was“at peace more often”.

 

But then the internet fan revealed his self-pleasure-free stint gave him “superpowers”.

 

He said: “Yes I was able to feel all those things you call ‘superpowers’ too – sudden increase in confidence, laser sharp focus, more attention from women, easier to find s*x, energy boosts, etc.”

 

Although he was quick to question himself, adding: “How do we know these superpowers aren’t just normal human tendencies?”

 

Brohit said his “fapstinence” also helped him to see he had other addictions and obsessions related to dating and s*x.

 

He continued: “I check my phone every few minutes to see if that cute girl I texted has replied to my texts/snaps.

“I go on Tinder so frequently to see if I can find my one true soulmate (or maybe just get laid soon). Having meaningless s*x with a new girl every time.

“How’s any of this different from masturbating?

“And if none of these things go according to how I want them to, my self-esteem and general level of happiness takes a serious blow.”

 

Taking a swipe at those who don’t think porn addiction is real, he added: “I still face the same urges I did 700 days ago, but I like to think that I’m much stronger now.

 

“At least now I can take comfort in the fact that if I can control my urge to masturbate then I have developed a strong enough will power to beat an addiction that people blindly don’t even consider an addiction.

“Happiness and satisfaction comes from within. Just let that void be. Don’t try to fill it with anything. That void within ourselves is what makes us human.”

“Have faith you guys. Faith in yourself. Stay strong.”

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Drama as Mother Drags Son to Court for Masturbating Too Much (Photo)

A worried mother has left nothing to chance as she has dragged her son to court over an obsessive habit that is about ruining his life.

Taylor Karakadzai

A woman has dragged her son to a court for masturbating too much. Taylor Karakadzai (26) from Nkulumane suburb in Bulawayo of Zimbabwe not only masturbates but also leaves the toilet dirty for his mother to clean.

B-metro gathered that Gladys Ndlovu who got tired of cleaning the mess by her son has approached the courts for a protection order.

“I am applying for a protection order against my son who always locks himself in the toilet masturbating leaving it dirty with his sperms all over. I’m tired of cleaning his dirt,” she said.

It was gathered that the problem started a long time ago after the son spent a year and six months behind bars for initially beating her up. She told the magistrate that after spending time in jail he had become worse.

“But still (after jail release) his behaviour has not changed,” she said.

Their living conditions are such that one way or the other they are in each other’s space.

“We use two rooms and he sleeps in the kitchen. If I try to wake him up he becomes angry and only wakes up around midday,” said Ndlovu.

The presiding magistrate Stephen Ndlovu granted the order in favour of Ndlovu. Taylor did not dispute his mother’s claims.

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Warning! Read What Too Much Masturbation Can Do to Your P*nis

Many men do not know that they are putting themselves at great risk each time they begin to pleasure themselves. Guys, read up what over masturbation can do to your p*nis.

 

Over stimulation of the penis can lead to persistent softness of an erection, while the disappearance of a morning erection can signify a hormonal imbalance. Weak erections can vary, from poor blood circulation to anxiety issues, but for men who over masturbate, the weakness can occur because of a hormonal imbalance.

 

Hormonal Reserve

Think of sex as a battery. The more you use it, the faster you lose it. An erection occurs because of a healthy dosage of hormones and neurotransmitters. The urge for sex starts with testosterone. But men who ejaculate often lose testosterone faster than their bodies can replenish it. With little testosterone, erections become weaker.

 

Meanwhile, dopamine must be released to stimulate the penis, while acetylcholine must be present to keep the “excitement” level high. Nitric oxide, a signaling chemical, must also appear in order to provide the proper signaling between the brain and the penis for a healthy erection. Over masturbation depletes all of these neurochemicals.

 

Lowered dopamine requires more stimulation to stay “hard”, while decreased acetylcholine levels ruin the flow of blood to maintain an erection. Depleted nitric oxide levels lead to a decrease in communication between the brain and penis.

 

Regaining the Proper Hormones

For hormones to return to their normal state, men must refrain from masturbating as often. The individual who has grown addicted to the activity may have trouble quitting. Still, an individual should aim to quit gradually. Next, taking hormonal supplements can help stabilize testosterone and neurotransmitter production for a healthy erection.

 

If you suffer from weak erections, take Botanical Solutions for Erectile Dysfunction to help stabilize your production of nitric oxide and to increase the elasticity of blood vessels for improved erection quality

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