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Can a man be faithful when he has the option to lay in “greener
pastures?” Really think about that for a moment. The statement above, if
true, would seem to prove otherwise. All men have the option to cheat.
Whether or not a man cheats has little do with availability. It has
everything to do with the character of that man. To be, or not to be
faithful are both individual choices.
The true measure of a man is determined by his finer qualities not
his options to stray. Here are 3 qualities of a real man and how to spot
a cheater.
1. A Real Man Has Commitment
I have known men on both sides of the proverbial coin, those who
cheat fluently and those who are steadfastly faithful. Both arrive at
their chosen destination intentionally. Men who cheat do so with
intention.
They use the latest technology to advance their indiscretions.
Social media isn’t inherently bad. Facebook and other social media sites
don’t ruin relationships. It’s a neutral platform that can be used to
honor a woman or to dishonor her. What determines its use is its user. A
committed man will use these tools to honor the woman he is committed
to with great integrity.
2. A Real Man Has Integrity
Integrity is what a man does when no one is watching. It’s who he
is when the camera is off. This man will protect the integrity of his
relationship in the presence of his woman and in her absence. He’s not
faithful under “duress.”
He avoids situations that will compromise his relationship. It’s
not always because he’s afraid that he will cheat. It’s an act of
honoring the woman he’s committed to. No other woman should have the
same access to him that she has. This is respect.
3. A Real Man Has Respect
Respect is more than just how a man talks to a woman. That’s a part
of it. It’s never acceptable to call a woman “bitch.” Not in jest, not
in anger, not at anytime regardless of her behavior. There is no
justification for disrespecting a woman in this manner even when she
disrespects herself and even when she will allow a man to disrespect
her.
Beyond language, respect is how a man treats a woman. This is
governed by two things. It’s governed by the value that he places on
women in general and the value he places on her individually. At worst,
he will treat her with respect simply because she is a woman. If a
deeper relationship ensues, his treatment of her will also deepen as the
relationship progresses.
A Cheater is Uncommitted, Lacks Integrity, and is Disrespectful
As for those males who choose to be unfaithful, options have very
little to do with their choice to be untrue. They search for
opportunities to be unfaithful. These poor souls measure manhood by
their s*xual conquests. The greater the conquest, the greater the man.
This belief governs their interactions with women.
Women should avoid them at all costs. The unfortunate truth is that
far too many women choose to indulge these men to their own hurt.
Insecure women suffer at the hands of these men whom they seek to
“save.” They prove their worthiness for love by their devotion to the
men that “need” them. It becomes a vicious cycle where the cards are
stacked against them.
There are only two options for men, to be faithful or unfaithful.
There are only two options for women, faithful or infaithful men. Choose
wisely.
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