You
have to read this because it might really save your life. Here are very
important 10 reasons to avoid having s*x before marriage.
1. S*x is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly.
Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man.
When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy;
when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind
of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest
pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and
for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this
powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those
close to you.
2. Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological,
social and academic development. Studies show that when young people
engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their
social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is
because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive s*x
drive and it tends to dominate their life.
3. The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of
marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security
and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place
sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught,
the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome)
factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.
4. Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your
life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in
marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to
your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back.
Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.
5. Those who engage in premarital s*x run a high risk of
contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as
losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring
diseases like herpes have no cure.
6. Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples
discover many years later that they became infertile because of these
diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility
is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.
7. The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and
other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex
and maintain fidelity in your marriage.
8. Premarital s*x breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10
Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not
outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can
create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a
heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and
loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can
break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.
9. Premarital s*x runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate
children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single
mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and
academically than children from intact families. Above all, children
need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having
children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.
10. If you date and you don't have s*x, you can forget about that
relationship when you stop dating. But if you have s*x with those you
date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong,
often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you
break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The
psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your
character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved
spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you.
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